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Top 10 queries on childhood autism – answers and explanations

Being a parent is a blessing which comes with its own set of worries and queries. At every stage of our baby’s life we are wondering, Is she growing well? Is he eating enough? Am I doing  everything right for my baby? Is his speech and development normal? Why is she not interacting yet? We get answers to most of these questions on your routine visits to doctor, ryt? However, in today’s world, its very common to get caught up in the daily life.  And then suddenly one fine day we find that something is amiss. We head to google Read more…

Child development in first year of life

Do you want to know if your baby is developing well? Do you keep comparing your little one’s development with her cousins? Read on to know “what is normal?” And, what is not. Gross motor:   Age (months) 3 5 6-7   8 9 10   12 Milestones Babies usually have a good head control by this age Baby can sit with support of cushions etc Can sit with the support of his/her hands , might sit independently for a moment Baby should be able to sit independently by this age Crawls Stands holding onto furniture , might walk holding Read more…

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Thumb sucking in babies- causes and remedies

Have you ever seen a toddler merrily sucking over his thumb or fingers? And, his troubled parents making a fuss over it?

Does your child walk around with a thumb in his mouth?

Have you tried all measures but can’t get your child over with thumb sucking?

Well today, you will get most of your answers.

Sucking is a normal response in babies. It helps them to feed on mother’s breast. As they learn to regard their hands by 3-4months, they start exploring their mouth with their hands.

Most of the babies stop thumb sucking by the age of 2years. However, many of them are stuck to this habit for over 5years.

Causes of thumb sucking

Anxiety:  Children might use sucking as a stress reliever. As they are  scolded or get anxious, they will slip into a corner sucking on to her thumb. Sucking has s soothing effect on their nerves.

Habit: For some of the kids it’s just a habit they can’t kick off. They just need a little push in the right direction.

Harms of thumb sucking

This habit is normal for infants. However, if your child continues with it in her toddler years, she is likely to face some issues like

1. Crowding of upper teeth: Continuous pressure on the palate due to thumb or finger causes crowding of teeth in upper jaw. Earlier, dentists used to worry about these issues only after permanent teeth start erupting. However, now they are worried about early years of life also. These kids might need braces for correction in teenage.

2. Inappropriate bite. Improper jaw development leads to inappropriate bite. This may lead to teeth grinding at night and erosion of edges of teeth. These kids might need to use a mouth guard to protect their teeth.

3. Speech issues: Due to undue pressure on upper jaw, they tend to develop a “lisp” as they learn to speak.

How to get rid of thumb sucking

All children eventually stop sucking their thumb. Nobody has ever entered a high school sucking on to his or her thumb or fingers. So, dear parents, you need to stop worrying first of all.

Earlier, no intervention was recommended for this habit until five years of age. And, by this time kids eventually outgrow it.

Nowadays,  dentists are worried more about dental development of kids. Hence, it is recommended that children should get rid of this habit by 3-4years of age.

Here are a few tips and tricks to get rid of thumb sucking in your child

  1. Talk her out of it: Kids are more likely to leave a habit if they are made aware of it. Many a times, thumb sucking is not intentional. So, it is good to talk to the child that this habit is damaging his teeth and harming his speech. Don’t pull the thumb out of his mouth when he is stressed. You are depriving him of his comfortable cushion.
  2. Use their favourite characters: If your child is fond of watching cartoons like Peppa Pig, sit down with him and say, “Look, George is not putting his thumb in his mouth!” If you see an episode where his favourite character is trying to break a habit, discuss with him and work out a way of getting rid of his own habit.
  3. Set the rules: Initially , to decrease the frequency, you can lay down certain rules like “no thumb while studying”, “don’t put anything in mouth in front of TV”, “avoid thumb sucking in public places”. They will gradually outgrow it.
  4. Use rewards: Reward your kiddo with a “star” or a small “ball” or “eraser” when they don’t suck their thumb for some period like an hour or so “You have been a good child today. Here is a star for you!”
  5. Visit to dentist: When you take your little one for regular dental check, discuss about this habit. When the doc will tell about the need for braces and mouth guard, child is more likely to understand the need to change.
  6. Aversive techniques: If none of the above measures work you might try,
    1. applying a bitter drug or nail polish to the thumb
    2. Using a finger guard or plaster

Scientifically, last technique is not recommended. Practically, I tried this with my three year old and it didn’t work. Finally, I  gave him the example of his favourite cartoon character “George Pig” and rewarded him with “stars” for positive behavior. And, bingo! his thumb was out of his mouth!

Which method worked for you? And, how much time did it take? Do share your experiences in comment box.

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The Ultimate Guide To Stepping Out With Your Baby

Birth of a baby totally changes the parents’ life for good. There is a baby cot adjacent to the bed. Instead of snoozing through the night, you are waking up every few hours – feeding, cleaning or just checking up on the little one. Wherever you go, baby grabs all the attention. Well, well, well…. You must be thinking, going out with the baby? You gotta kidding me! Believe it or not, it’s a memorable experience. Only thing is that we have to  be a little more prepared before stepping out of the house. Diaper bag is the biggest savior Read more…

Gassy or colicky baby- causes and remedies

Newborn baby fills the entire family with joy and excitement. Everyone likes to play with the little one.
But some of the days, these joyful bundles get extremely cranky, not consolable by feeding or any other measures. This is more common in evening or at night.
One of the common causes for this irritability is colic or gas.
Baby’s digestive system is growing so the muscles often go into spasm causing tummy ache. Sometimes, it’s due to milk allergy or indigestion of formula milk.

Whatever be the cause, colic is troublesome for both parents and babies. Here are a few remedies to ease your baby

1. Tummy time: Make your baby lie on his tummy and pat the back. This measure helps the baby fart and expels gas.

2. Hing: Applying “hing” or asofoetida on baby’s belly acts as a carminative, helping her to burp or fart.

3.Antigas drops. You can ask your doctor for antigas medicine. This can be used in severe cases , when above measures don’t work.

4. Changing the formula: Babies who are on formula milk are more likely to have gas. If possible, stop top milk altogether. If somehow that is not possible, try switching to hydrolysed formula milk.

5. Distraction: You must have observed that sometimes you are taking your baby to doctor for her irritability. But , by the time you reach the clinic, baby is sound asleep. This is because babies get distracted by change in surrounding. And, the crankiness disappears.


Mum’s diet and colic

Intake of certain foods by breastfeeding mom sometimes may cause gas symptoms in baby. You can observe the connection between your diet and baby’s symptoms.

Some of these foods are cauliflower, cabbage and citrus fruits like orange. If you are allergic to milk or dairy products, it might cause symptoms in your baby.

However, there is no hard and fast correlation between mom’ s diet and colic in baby.

Gripe water and colic

Many parents swear by this remedy for gas. However, scientifically speaking, there is no evidence for role of gripe water  in relieving gas.

Friends, good news is that colic usually starts resolving by 3months of age and totally disappears by 6-12months.

I hope these remedies help your baby in being gas-free.

Happy parenting!


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Potty training your child- tips that work

Toilet training is a stressful phase both for parents and toddlers. Lack of patience on our part can make things difficult for children. They are likely to develop fear of using the toilet and hence hold their  bowels leading to functional constipation. Here are a few tips to potty train your child the right way, 1. Mostly toddlers are ready to be potty trained by the age of two and a half. But it may vary a little from child to child. Some toddlers start showing discomfort with diapers, indicating that they are ready to be trained. 2. Use the Read more…

Junk food and children’s Health – a complete guide

Junk food or fast food is something that is liked by kids and adults alike. Hungry? Grab a pack of chips, biscuits or chocolate and get instant joy. Have you ever wondered, Why is fast food called junk food? (Why would someone name a food item ‘junk’?) Why do kids love junk food? How does junk food harm children’s health and brain development? How can we keep our kids away from the menace of junk food? Well, this blogpost has all the answers. You see, junk food is the name given to any food that has little or no nutrients Read more…

Bathing your baby the right way!

Babies in first three months appear very delicate. New parents, especially first timers,  are really anxious to  handle them. Bathing and nail care are especially the tricky ones. When I received my first bundle of joy, I began to wonder How many times a week should I bathe my baby? Is there any specific time of the day that is more suitable? How to hold the baby while bathing? Bath tub? Or reclining baby bath? To massage or not? Oil, lotion or moisturiser or yoghurt!!! Well, the list is endless. With each passing day, I got answers to these questions Read more…